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God Wanted a Family

Why we exist — and the staggering fact that the Maker of the universe is, by nature, a Father

Lesson 1 — God Wanted a Family

After Michael S. Heiser, What Does God Want? — Chapter 1

Pleasant Springs Church · Tuesday, June 2 at 6 pm

Key Texts: Genesis 1:26–28 • Genesis 2:7 • Job 38:4–7 • Isaiah 63:16; 64:8 • Luke 3:38 • Acts 17:28–29 • Romans 8:14–17

The Big Idea God did not make us because He needed us. He didn’t make us because He was lonely — before He made the earth He already had a supernatural family of intelligent beings (Job 38:7). God created us because He wanted a second family — a human family made in His own image, to live in His presence, share His attributes, and rule with Him over the world He had just made. That is the answer to the oldest question of the human soul: Why am I here?
Part One — The God Most People Imagine

Heiser opens his book with the picture of God most of us start with — not necessarily a hostile God, but a distant one. A creator, a power, an observer somewhere out there. Real, yes; involved, maybe; interested in me? Probably not. As Heiser puts it:

“God was more or less a detached observer whose attention I might get from time to time…. Since I wasn’t seeking him I assumed he wasn’t seeking me. If someone had asked me, I think I would have said God had better things to do.” — Michael S. Heiser, What Does God Want?

The Bible quietly demolishes this picture from its first page. The God of Scripture is not a detached observer. He is a Father who acts with purpose, makes things in order to enjoy them, and seeks us long before we ever think to seek Him. He is committed to us by His very nature.

How do we know that? Heiser’s answer — the question he says he will ask more than once — is to start with what we already know about ourselves.

Part Two — What Our Own Nature Tells Us

Notice how you behave. You don’t do things at random. You brush your teeth on purpose. You go to work because something good is waiting on the other side. You get angry when someone mocks or destroys what you spent yourself making. You are, by nature, a purposeful, self-aware, creative being — not an accident with hands.

Heiser’s point: the opposite of those things would be a psychological anomaly. We are wired this way because we were made in the image of a Maker who is exactly this way — only infinitely more so.

The argument in one sentence.
If you care intensely about what you make, why on earth would you assume the One who made you doesn’t care just as much — and infinitely more?

God “does what he does to enjoy what he’s done” (Heiser). He did not create humanity because He lacked something — God is complete in Himself. He created us so that what He made could enjoy Him in return. The things He cares about most are the creatures He made to be like Him — that would be you and me.

Part Three — Where the Story Begins

Genesis opens with a Father who is already at work. The very first creative act in the Bible is the calling of light out of darkness (Gen. 1:3). By the time the camera lands on people, God has filled the earth with plants, fish, birds, and beasts — spectacular creatures, but none of them able to respond. Plants don’t talk back. A pine tree cannot say thank you. A leopard cannot pray. Family is not made of plants and beasts.

So God makes something new. And the language He chooses tips His hand.

Genesis 1:26–28 — The Image-Bearers
Genesis 1:26–28 (LXX & ESV)
26και` ει&hat;πεν ο` Θεοσ· ποιησωμεν ανθρωπον κατ' εικονα η`μετεραν και` καθ' ο`μοιωσιν… 27και` εποιησεν ο` Θεοσ το`ν ανθρωπον, κατ' εικονα Θεο&hat;υ εποιησεν αυτον, αρσεν και` θηλυ εποιησεν αυτουσ. 28και` ηυλογησεν αυτουσ ο` Θεοσ λεγων· αυξανεσθε και` πληθυνεσθε και` πληρωσατε τη`ν γη&hat;ν και` κατακυριευσατε αυτη&hat;σ. 26Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. 28And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion….”

Two Hebrew words are doing the heavy lifting here: tselem (“image,” Greek eikôn) and demuth (“likeness,” Greek homoiôsis). In the ancient Near East, a tselem was the king’s representative statue, placed in a province he did not personally inhabit to declare: this place is mine, and I rule it through this image. Genesis takes that political vocabulary and gives it to every human being.

Image as a verb.
Heiser says it best: think of “image of God” as a verb, not a noun. We don’t merely have an image of God somewhere inside us — we are made to image Him. To be His representative on the earth He owns. To do, in our small way, the things He does: think, choose, create, bless, govern with care.
Part Four — God Was Never Alone

Here is one of the great surprises of Heiser’s book: the reason God created us was not to fill a hole in His own heart. The Bible tells us God was never alone. Before the earth was made, He had already created a vast company of intelligent beings — the angels, what the Old Testament calls “sons of God.”

Job 38:4–7 (LXX & ESV) — The Sons of God Shouted for Joy
4πο&hat;υ η&hat;σ εν τω&hat;ι θεμελιο&hat;υν με τη`ν γη&hat;ν? απαγγειλον δε μοι ει επιστασαι συνεσιν… 7οτε εγενηθησαν αστερεσ, ηινεσαν με φωνη&hat;ι μεγαλη&hat;ι παντεσ αγγελοι μου. 4Where were you when I laid the foundation of the earth? Tell me, if you have understanding… 7when the morning stars sang together and all the sons of God shouted for joy?

The angels were already there at creation — watching, cheering, worshiping. They are repeatedly called b&hat;enê haelohim (“sons of God”) in the Hebrew Bible (Job 1:6; 2:1; Ps. 29:1; 89:6; Deut. 32:8 DSS). The Hebrew word for “sons” can equally be translated “children.” And the phrase “children of God” means one thing in the Bible: family.

God already had a family.
Before Adam was a thought, God had a supernatural family in the unseen realm. He was a Father long before there was a man to call Him one. This means the human family was not a backup plan for divine loneliness. It was a deliberate second household, designed to live with the first one, in God’s presence, on God’s earth. Eden was the meeting place of the two families.
Part Five — The God Who Is Called Father

Once you see this, the family-language of the Bible stops being a sentimental decoration and starts being the load-bearing structure. From Adam onward, Scripture calls God our Father and humanity His children. It is not poetry. It is biology — the spiritual kind:

Isaiah 63:16; 64:8 (LXX & ESV) — You, O LORD, Are Our Father
63:16συ` γα`ρ ηι&hat; πατη`ρ η`μω&hat;ν… 64:8και` νυ&hat;ν, Κυριε, πατη`ρ η`μω&hat;ν συ` ει&hat;, η`μει&hat;σ δε` πηλοσ εργον τω&hat;ν χειρω&hat;ν σου παντεσ. 63:16For you are our Father… 64:8But now, O LORD, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.
Luke 3:38 (Greek & ESV) — The Genealogy Ends at “Son of God”
… το&hat;υ Σηθ, το&hat;υ Αδαμ, το&hat;υ Θεου. …the son of Seth, the son of Adam, the son of God.
Acts 17:28–29 (Greek & ESV) — Paul on the Areopagus
28εν αυτω&hat;ι γα`ρ ζω&hat;μεν και` κινουμεθα και` εσμεν, ωσ` και τινεσ τω&hat;ν καθ' υ`μα&hat;σ ποιητω&hat;ν ειρηκασιν· το&hat;υ γα`ρ και` γενοσ εσμεν. 29γενοσ ου&hat;ν υπαρχοντεσ το&hat;υ Θεου… 28For “In him we live and move and have our being”; as even some of your own poets have said, “For we are indeed his offspring.” 29Being then God’s offspring…

Even Paul, preaching to Greek pagans who knew nothing of Genesis, anchors the gospel to this same conviction: every human being on earth is, in the broadest creational sense, the offspring (genos) of God. We were not made by accident, by an indifferent universe, or as cosmic afterthought. We were fathered.

Part Six — Why Imaging God Matters Now

If every person you meet is an imager of God — God’s representative on the earth — three things follow immediately:

Identity. You are not an accident. You are not a problem. You are not a sum of your worst moments. You are the work of a Father’s hands, made to live in His presence and bear His likeness on the earth.
Equality. Every other human you meet — rich, poor, friend, enemy, born and unborn — carries the same image. Racism, contempt, cruelty, abuse, and indifference are all desecrations of the image of God in another person. The Bible knows nothing of degrees of dignity among image-bearers.
Mission. You have a job. Imaging God is a verb. Every task you set your hand to — raising children, washing dishes, building bridges, healing patients, leading worship, fixing trucks — can be done in a way that shows the world what the Father is like. In God’s eyes, the pastor and the plumber stand on level ground; both are imagers, and both have a calling.
“What does God want? He wants you. He wants a family. He wants co-workers. He wants you to know who you are and why your life has value to him.” — Michael S. Heiser, What Does God Want?
The New Testament Echo — Adopted Into the Family

The Old Testament called God “Father” in a creational sense — we are all His children because we are all His handiwork. The New Testament takes that further. In Christ, those who once turned away are adopted into the family in a deeper way: not merely creatures of God, but children, with the inheritance and intimacy that word implies.

Romans 8:14–17 (Greek & ESV) — The Spirit of Adoption
14οσοι γα`ρ Πνευματι Θεου αγονται, ου&hat;τοι εισιν υιοι Θεου. 15ου γα`ρ ελαβετε πνευμα δουλειασ παλιν εισ φοβον, αλλ' ελαβετε πνευμα υιοθεσιασ, εν ω&hat;ι κραζομεν· αββα, ο` πατηρ. 16αυτο` το` Πνευμα συμμαρτυρει&hat; τω&hat;ι πνευματι η`μω&hat;ν οτι εσμεν τεκνα Θεου. 14For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. 15For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God… 17and if children, then heirs — heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ.

This is the answer to the modern soul’s loneliest fear. You are not an orphan in a meaningless universe. You were made by a Father, you are wanted by a Father, and through Jesus you are invited back into the Father’s house.

Discussion Questions
1. Heiser opens by describing the “detached observer” picture of God. Which version of God did you grow up assuming was true? Where did that picture come from?
2. The argument in Part Two: because we are intentional, creative beings who care about what we make, we can reason something about the One who made us. Is that an argument you find persuasive? Why or why not?
3. Genesis says we are made “in the image of God.” Heiser turns the noun into a verb: to image God. What is one specific thing you do in an ordinary week that, done well, images what God is like?
4. Job 38 says God already had a supernatural family of “sons of God” before He made the earth. Does that change anything about why you think He made us?
5. Acts 17 says every human being is, in the creational sense, God’s offspring. Romans 8 says those in Christ are adopted as “sons by adoption.” What is the difference, and why does it matter?
6. If every person you meet is an image-bearer of God — including the cashier, the neighbor you find difficult, and the person on the other side of a political argument — how does that change the way you treat them this week?
7. Heiser closes the chapter: “What does God want? He wants you.” What in your heart resists believing that — and what would it look like to let that resistance go?
Closing Prayer
Father, you were never a stranger. We were the strangers. Thank you that you made us — not to fill a hole in your heart, but to enjoy us and to be enjoyed by us. Thank you that we are not accidents. Thank you that our lives are the work of your hands. Help us this week to live as imagers of you, treating every other soul we meet as the family member you intended them to be. And through your Son Jesus, draw us deeper into the household where we were always meant to belong. Amen.
Sources & Further Reading
  • Michael S. Heiser, What Does God Want?. Blind Spot Press, 2018. (Chapter 1: “God Wanted a Family.”)
  • Michael S. Heiser, The Unseen Realm: Recovering the Supernatural Worldview of the Bible. Lexham Press, 2015. (Chapters 3–5 on the divine council and the sons of God.)
  • Michael S. Heiser, Supernatural: What the Bible Teaches About the Unseen World and Why It Matters. Lexham Press, 2015.
  • J. Richard Middleton, The Liberating Image: The Imago Dei in Genesis 1. Brazos Press, 2005.
  • N. T. Wright, Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church. HarperOne, 2008.
  • Septuagint Greek text: Rahlfs-Hanhart, Septuaginta. Deutsche Bibelgesellschaft.
  • English text: The Holy Bible, English Standard Version. ESV® Text Edition: 2016. Crossway Bibles.

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