Why Would a Good God Allow Pain and Suffering?

The left end of the board

September 26, 2026 · Pleasant Springs Church · 8 questions
The left end of the board: handwritten questions on the BBQ board
The left end of the board, as you left it.

The left end of the board held the heaviest questions of the day — suffering, who made God, whether the “little g” gods are real — and two questions somebody turned back around on all of us. Find yours below — and if you know a good answer, share it at the bottom of the page.

Who made God?
Answered on the board“no one”

Nobody. Everything that begins needs a cause — but God never began. He is the uncreated Maker of everything else. Before the mountains, before time itself, God already was.

Psalm 90:2 (ESV)
“Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever you had formed the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.”
Why was God mad?

When the Bible speaks of God’s anger, it is aimed at sin and evil — the things that destroy the people He loves. A God who did not care about evil would not be good. But notice how God describes Himself to Moses: slow to anger, full of mercy.

Exodus 34:6 (ESV)
“The LORD passed before him and proclaimed, “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness,”
Are the little “g” gods real?

The Bible says there are spiritual beings — it even calls them “gods” in places. But they are created beings, many of them rebels, and none of them is anything like the one true God who made them and judges them. There is one God, and one Lord, Jesus Christ.

Psalm 82:1 (ESV)
“God has taken his place in the divine council; in the midst of the gods he holds judgment:”
1 Corinthians 8:5–6 (ESV)
“For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth—as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”—yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.”
What is love?

Love is not first a feeling; it is giving yourself for someone else’s good. We know what it looks like because God showed us: He sent His Son for us before we ever loved Him.

1 John 4:10 (ESV)
“In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.”
1 Corinthians 13:4 (ESV)
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant”
Why would a good God allow pain and suffering?

This is the hardest question on the board, and there is no one-line answer. Here is part of it: God made us free to love, and that freedom can be used to hurt. He does not stand far from our pain — in Jesus He stepped into it, all the way to the cross. And He promises a day when He will wipe away every tear.

Revelation 21:4 (ESV)
“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.””
Psalm 34:18 (ESV)
“The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Could my wife lead a prayer in front of me if I’m a Christian?

Yes. In the Bible, men and women prayed together from the very first days of the church, and wives and husbands are called fellow heirs of the grace of life. A husband and wife praying for each other, out loud, is a beautiful thing — take turns!

Acts 1:14 (ESV)
“All these with one accord were devoting themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers.”
1 Peter 3:7 (ESV)
“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.”
When was the last time you called on Jesus?

This one was a question for us — and someone at the table answered it honestly. Thank you. Jesus is close to the brokenhearted. You can call on Him right now, wherever you are reading this.

Romans 10:13 (ESV)
“For “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.””
When did you truly trust God last?

Another question for all of us. Trusting God is not a one-time event; it is a daily lean. What are you carrying today that you could hand to Him?

Proverbs 3:5 (ESV)
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.”

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.


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